I believe your post presumes wrongly that conservatives are spending their days obsessively looking for ways to control or cause either direct or indirect harm to you. They’re not.

Then explain all your subsequent statements where conservatives are doing that very thing.

Same as well with using the state apparatus, taxpayer money, or use public schools to push your views.

The fact that transgender people exist is not a “view”. It’s a scientific fact. Maybe if your school had been funded better you would know this.

However they would be also expecting to not be compelled in any way whatsoever to play along.

It is not a game. They are not playing. They are expressing themselves. Treating them the way they want does no harm to anyone.

Most surely, they would like that, In the same vein as dressing up differently doesn’t give you access to opposite sex bathrooms, getting surgical procedures done on yourself wouldn’t also give you access to the bathrooms of the opposite sex.

Having mis-matched clothing or genitalia has never stopped anyone who wanted to do harm to someone else in a bathroom. This is a bullshit issue. https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/no-link-between-trans-inclusive-policies-bathroom-safety-study-finds-n911106