Tldr; Guy meets blind girl. They date. Guy gets his shit together. She proposes. They get married.

I’m not asking you because I don’t understand it, I’m asking you because I don’t think you understand it lol.

Tell me then, what is the general human condition? Is it the experiences of the ‘average person’? I hate to break it to you, but this person doesn’t exist.

Who are you to decide who is and isn’t included in the general human condition?

Can you tell me where you got your definition from, and what it is?

Meanwhile there are girl boring guy quirky memes all over this community. Casual sexism is what’s wholesome.

I don’t know why you’re gate keepint existential dread, but here is the APA’s definition: “a profound, deep-seated psychic or spiritual condition of insecurity and despair in relation to the human condition and the meaning of life.”

I’m feeling plenty of despair to the human condition and the meaning of life. I wake up everyday and ask myself why live and exist at all when existence is nothing but pain.

I’m in a permanent constant state of pain everyday. My entire existence is pain. I’m not sure what else you need me to go through to prove my existential dread.

I, for one, almost died at a mass shooting.

My body has left in a permanent state of pain and suffering, where every few days the pain intensifies and there is next to nothing I can do about it.

What about you?

For the tone deaf people who say this isn’t sexist or about women, look again. The whole package of ‘OMG’, exclamation marks, ‘annoying kids’, two moms, some annoying trait, is all dog-whistle for people who like to trivialize things women do.

Nice try with the ‘no u’ card, but calling people sexist for pointing out sexism is cringe and absurd.

Actual chronic pain sufferer here. If I had a dollar every time placebo and positive thinking was prescribed to me, I would have enough to maybe hire a doctor who won’t systemically downplay or dismiss my pain because of my age and gender.

As someone who got fibromyalgia in their 20s, that’s what life is like.

A body being there makes it completely different because the normal forces exerted on that body are redirected to the thrusting body.

Not saying this is easy, but it’s like asking a man to do air squats and equating it to what it’s like for women being on top.

Leave it to people who’ve never had sex before to think this is what it’s like.

Not saying this is the case for you, but some people use ‘dark humor’ as a front for thinly veiled racism or sexism and the deliberate offense is what’s not tolerated.

^OP when they remember 23% of Lemmy’s userbase are women

Because Lemmy users are 77% men. Jokes like this are excused with ‘satire’ and if you aren’t one of them you wouldn’t get it.

Inb4 the hate, let me absolve with satire as an excuse before any of you start overreacting.

That’s not the kind of joke made by people with secure masculinity so I think these few steps can help you:

1. Picture a woman more successful than you.
2. Accept that she is not a threat to your ego.
3. Understand that your self worth isn’t defined by other people.
4. Repeat the phrase “Successful women don’t exist ____(despite of/because of/for/to hate/to ruin/to mock) me.” Successful women simply exist, whether you are there to observe them or not.
5. Remove “women are ____” statements from your speech until you no longer feel threatened by them.
6. Get therapy