Devi

I hate seeing gravelled gardens, it’s so ugly. There’s loads of low maintenence plants you can choose from.

Seems to be currently down so presumably being fixed.

Flagged by who?

That’s very simplistic, there’s loads of cancer treatments, what you’re describing is a kind of broad brush chemotherapy, but there’s lots of more targeted versions, then loads of different pills and potions, immunotherapies, radiotherapies and the good old “cut the thing out” method.

Cancer treatment is the best funded area of medicine and there’s loooads of advances going on all the time.

True. I have a lot of friends who dated abusers AFTER they abused someone else, and parrotted the “his ex was a psycho and made it all up” line.

Sometimes the ex is a psycho, but like 99% of the time they aren’t.

If 35 different people say they were sexually assaulted by someone then the chances that all of them are untrue is miniscule.

Bonus points for his fans shouting about how he wasn’t convicted so “He was totally cleared of all that, they’re just jealous psychos!”

Because everyone knows sexual assault is notoriously well dealt with.

Some feelings come from prejudice. It’s not saying that those feelings don’t exist but they need to be looked at.

If you are upset at people having perfectly normal reactions to dangers in their environment then you need to look at those feelings and work on putting yourself in other peoples shoes.

I don’t think you read it. He is suggesting that women reacting to actual real danger is damaging to him. If he understood then it wouldn’t be hurtful.

Do you get upset when a strange child is scared of you? Of course not, because you understand that new people are scary to children.

It’s hilarious that you started this by saying you’re ‘trying to be part of the solution’ but are then pretending you don’t understand the issue at all.

If you want to be part of the solution then start by educating yourself.

Are you suggesting that black people are regularly attacking people? Because if not then it’s not the same thing is it?

I’m not sure you’re understanding the situation. Imagine if 1 out of 10 dogs you approached were aggressive, would you feel happy around dogs? Or would you protect yourself?

You’re fully aware that women are taking actions are protecting themselves, so why are you taking this personally? Why not just be understanding?

This is so common. We don’t really tend to discuss it really cause it kind of harsh to be public about rejections, but it happens a lot.

I had a guy ask me out a few years ago, I really delicately explained I wasn’t interested, and he took it really well and we had a hug. I told everyone about that for years because of how surprising it was.

You probably know this, but your friend is a dick.

As a girl who sometimes wears band shirts, there’s a certain type of guy, and it’s always a metal band, and he’ll walk straight up to you and go “Can you name the first album?”, “Can you name the drummer?”, and of course the most common “Can you name three songs?”. It’s not a nice friendly chat, you know you’re being quizzed. They’re checking if you’re ‘worthy’.

Yet I’ve been with guy friends who wear metal shirts every single day, and it never happens to them. Most they get is “Hey! Great band!”

from the end of the last millennium

The late 1900s

Just put a UK address in?

Everything doesn’t exist. There are 97 episodes currently missing. I started watching from the first ep a while back, there was a fair few more missing at the time, but I pretty soon got lost with big chunks missing.

You can use iplayer through a VPN if that’s useful to you.

The one with the parrots

Streams are better than torrents for TV outside of the biggest shows.