• Warjac@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    As a man this sort of thing is terrible. Public outings shouldn’t be overshadowed by fear of attacks of any kind.

    That said this comic is extremely close to fear mongering and it definitely generalizes the male population.

    Be smart people. But don’t think your negative experiences rule the world.

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      6 months ago

      When 1 in 5 women experience sexual assault in their lifetime, it’s not fear mongering. And that’s just sexual assaults. If you include scary experiences of threatening men hitting on them, basically every woman has that experience.

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        My eyes were shut to this for such an embarrassingly long time. One time while on the phone with my sister she was catcalled/harassed. I could hear it and asked “what the fuck was that?!”. She shrugged it off. It was normal to her. The fact that she was so cavalier about it really opened my eyes to how different the female experience is in this world and it breaks my heart.

        Girls, feel free to be loud about this (if you feel like it, if course). It’s a big deal and (assuming my experience is typical) the men in your life might be clueless to the severity of it.

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          6 months ago

          It’s vital that people are aware of the issues and risks they are often blind to but we must be weary of how often these things can be used against us.

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        6 months ago

        While I agree that woman and other vulnerable populations have it far harder to have peace and safety from unsavory types I should point out that I don’t think this comic is intentionally trying to play into fear mongering just that it’s close and that people need to recognize the signs of sensationalist media trying to exploit fear and insecurities.

        I’m a little offended at your inclusion of “Threatening men” I hope you mean that it’s men deliberately threatening women as they hit on them not something so shallow as to say that you would include a scary looking man hitting on a woman as sexual assault. I feel that goes too far and is extremely judgemental of appearances sometimes beyond a persons ability to control them.