• CIWS-30@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    That only works for 1 or 2 generations, when the immigrants’ descendants find out what the pre-existing citizenry already has found out: that it’s too expensive and difficult to have children, particularly when you’re overworked all the time.

    Plus, immigrants are usually only brought in for jobs that are shittier, harder, lower-paying, and with fewer benefits than the current population of native born citizens already have.

    I’m a children of immigrants in the USA who is childless (hell, most of my cousins are too) and I live around immigrants of every nationality, and most either want to wait until 30 to have kids (and generally only like 1 kid at that) or want to have no kids.

    It’s like that in a lot of western nations with birthrate problems. It doesn’t take long for new people to start acting like the old people if the conditions are bad enough, and they are.

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      My wife and I are just kinda sorta getting to a place where we could consider having a kid. But we are getting a little old to have a kid.

      Also, a kid at this point would tank out ability to save and slow down our career progress.

      So by the time people get to a financial place to have a kid, they are too old to do it. Or they have to sacrifice too much.

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          My sister-in-law want her first child to be adopted and if she decides for a second one she will possibly have her own.

          I think my wife and I decided to stay kid free, but we will be a big part of our niece and nephews life.

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        You’ll be old when you’re dead. Go have a kids and teach them everything you know

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      That’s why you take a steady stream. Also, the culture changes, hopefully for the good, as immigrants bring in new perspectives